Have you ever had someone come up to you on a hot sweaty day, and give you a great big hug and their sweaty arms stuck to your hair as they wrapped you up, and then as they brought there arms down, your hair was pulled unintentionally? It has happened to me a couple of times, and the only thing about that hug that was unpleasant was that you got your hair pulled! But you knew that the person causing your pain was doing it in an act of love! Funny isn't it?
We often do things in an act of love, and yet we may have hurt someone without meaning to! I have learned this in my almost 4 weeks of marriage! We say something that we mean to be a show of our love, and yet some how we manage to hurt someone with our words through a miscommunication or misunderstanding of what the other person means! I will admit I am not that good as perceiving what the meaning of someones choice of words might be sometimes, but I do know that jumping to conclusions without solid fact to base it on can hurt someone, and yourself very much!
Same kind of thing can happen with your parents and siblings, not just your spouse! And sometimes even your friends! Christian, it is important to watch what we say and do, or we might hurt someone without meaning to!
Before closing this post I will update you all on how life has been since I last posted something! It has been wonderful! The Lord has truly blessed my marriage with Daniel, and as we continue to look to the Lord, I hope this will help us to be kind to one another everyday, and that we would ever be understanding! Nothing in this world is perfect, but with the Lord's help it can be better! Thank you all so much for reading, and God bless you!
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