A knife in the soul of sin

None of us are perfect, and we sin everyday without fail. As Christians, we hate our sinful nature, and try to learn from our mistakes. If someone else is involved in your sin, being able to ask for forgiveness is important. Sharing your past sins with your loved ones can hurt you, and your loved ones....but being honest with the ones we love is very important to spiritual peace between you.
But sharing your sins can also cause extreme pain later in life with that loved one. True forgiveness means you will never bring up that past sin to your loved one, as a sign of respect to their repentance. But sometimes in anger or sadness, we may bring up the past sin we forgave to hurt that loved one. This is wrong, beyond all, its destructive both mentally and spiritually. When we bring up past sins that we say we "forgave" we were lying, both to ourselves and to the one we forgave.
Without forgiveness there is no true healing of the past, and that person has to start over. If you love someone, never use their sins against them! You may loose your loved ones, and it won't be easy. Again, referring to my posts of love in the past, unconditional love is the love we need to strive to live out. Cause if we love someone unconditionally, no matter what they do, you will love them! Their good and their bad!
I can hear you say, but that person deserved to be punish because of their sin! But Christian, we are no better, and taking revenge is even worse! If we are to judge others, be ready to judge yourself by the same standard. So Christian, love unconditionally, and put and knife in the soul of YOUR sin, not others! God bless and thanks for reading!